Therapy is great, but have you tried a clean forehand?
Throughout my life, like most of us, there have been moments that arrive with…
Content note: This piece discusses sexual violence, including personal and systemic experiences of harm. Please read with care
“There are worse things than rape.”
Olivia Pope…
The discipline of becoming someone I can stand behind.
There is a kind of honesty that asks something of you.
It asks you to sit…
On culture, power, and the uneasy truth that brilliance and harm often live in the same body.
This essay continues a thread I began earlier…
Dancehall, sexuality, and the cultural work happening in a catalogue most people only hear as scandal.
I get into arguments about this all the…
Notes from a public apology about accountability, harm, and learning to live with what you cannot undo.
There’s a particular kind of certainty that…