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Content note: This piece discusses sexual violence, including personal and systemic experiences of harm. Please read with care
“There are worse things than rape.”
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There’s a sentence my therapist offered me that…
I was sitting on the tennis court, half listening, half thinking about how to fix my serve; far more important than listening to men talking…